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What Would You Tell Your 18-Year-Old Self?

April 15, 2025

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We all have moments where we wish we could go back and whisper something to our younger selves. A little wisdom. A little reassurance. A reminder that things will be okay, even when they feel like they won’t.

At Intimately You, we hear this kind of reflection often—especially after a boudoir session. So many women walk out of our studio with a new perspective. They see themselves differently. Kinder. Stronger. Softer in all the right ways.

And it’s got us thinking… what would you tell your 18-year-old self if you had the chance?

Maybe You’d Say…

“Be kinder to your body—it’s not the enemy.”
“You don’t have to have it all figured out yet.”
“You are already enough, exactly as you are.”

If you’re like most of us, your younger self probably needed a bit of reassurance. Maybe she was insecure, uncertain, trying to fit into a mould that was never designed for her. Maybe she spent too many years chasing perfection instead of peace.

But here’s the truth: everything you’ve gone through—every heartbreak, every challenge, every quiet triumph—has led you to the incredible woman you are today.

And that woman? She deserves to be seen, celebrated, and remembered.

Boudoir Photography for Self-Acceptance

That’s why we believe in boudoir photography for self-acceptance.

It’s not just about lingerie or looking a certain way. It’s about stepping in front of the camera and saying, “I’m done waiting to feel worthy—I already am.”

It’s about letting your current self honour the younger version of you who needed more kindness.
It’s about healing, celebration, and confidence—all in one experience.

Your Turn

If you could sit down with your 18-year-old self, what would you say?

We’d love to hear it—truly. Reflecting on your journey can be powerful, healing, and a beautiful reminder of how far you’ve come.

And if you’re ready to celebrate the woman you are today, not “someday,” you know where to find us.

📅 Book a free consultation for your self-acceptance boudoir session here

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BEHIND THE LENS

Meet Hayley

Like many of my clients, I’m on a journey of my own to accept and celebrate my body exactly as it is.

I’m a single mum to the sweetest little boy, and I know firsthand the challenges that come with embracing and loving your body. That's why I feel so lucky to be doing what I love every day.

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