Getting in front of a camera can feel like an Olympic sport for your nerves. Whether you’re stepping into the studio for a boudoir session or just trying to nail a selfie, confidence is key. The good news? It’s something you can build, even if you’re not born with it (ask me how I know!).
Here are five tips to help you feel more confident in front of the camera.
1. Bring Your Best Vibes
Confidence starts long before you’re in front of the camera. Wear something that makes you feel you. Whether it’s your favourite undies or a killer red lip, those little touches can make a big difference. And don’t forget to prep your playlist! Nothing boosts the mood like belting out Beyoncé between poses.
2. Trust Your Photographer (We’ve Got You)
At Intimately You, guiding women who feel “awkward” or “not photogenic” is literally our job. From your pose to your facial expressions, we’ll coach you through every step, making sure you’re comfortable, relaxed, and having fun. If you’re working with us, the only thing you need to do is show up—because we’ve got the rest covered.
3. Focus on Feeling, Not Posing
Here’s a secret: it’s not about how you look, it’s about how you feel. Think about a moment that made you feel happy, loved, or unstoppable. That emotion will translate into the photos and bring out your natural glow. (And yes, smiling with your eyes is a real thing. Tyra was onto something.)
4. Stop Trying to ‘Lose 10 Kilos’
So many women tell us they’ll book their shoot when they “lose a bit of weight.” News flash: You’re camera-worthy right now. Your body tells your story, and every curve, line, or freckle is worth celebrating. You don’t need to change—you just need to show up.
5. Laugh at Yourself
If you feel awkward, lean into it. Let out a giggle, pull a silly face, or share a ridiculous story. That laughter isn’t just good for your nerves; it’s pure gold for candid shots. Real moments > stiff poses every time.
Being in front of a camera isn’t about perfection—it’s about celebrating your unique, one-of-a-kind self. When you feel confident, it shows. And if you’re still feeling unsure, remember: your nervousness is just part of the journey. At the end of the day, you’ll walk away not just with incredible photos, but with a whole new appreciation for the person in them—you.
Got a boudoir shoot in mind? Let’s make it happen. 💌 Reach out, and let’s chat about how we can make you feel like the most confident woman in the room.
